These are the thougts that people have these days, at least people around me. I think those things are stupid, pathetic, and stupid again. I need to mention stupid more than once because it is THAT stupid.
I am not saying being happy in a relationship is wrong, or wanting to be in a relationship is wrong. What's wrong is throwing it in people's face like it's the end of the world. What's wrong is posting about it in social media all the effing time. What's wrong is making fun of people and making them insecure like there's something wrong with them for not being or not wanting to be in a relationship.
Don't define youe happiness by your relationship status. Does it ever occur to you that people who is in a relationship is not happy? Don't define yourself by your relationship status. Because you are so much MORE than that. Don't let being in a relationship makes you loose who you are. If you can't be happy by being on your own, how can you be happy with someone else?
There's so many things to worry about. Improve yourself, so that people will see what you really worth. Girls, if you're reading this, wake up and think that looks and love is not enough. You have to do something and have a sense of dignity. Realize that you can't just depend on your partner for the rest of your life. Boys, if you're reading this, have a plan, and again, looks and love is not enough.
Do something, achieve your goals. Know who you really are. Make your family proud. Tell your parents you made it. Then maybe, just maybe, the right person will come along eventually.
Happiness is your choice, if someone else is your only source of happiness, you will never ever be truly happy.
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